7 Game-Changing Hacks For Making Bolder Decisions
By Stephan Mardyks
You're standing at a crossroads, right? You've got this decision to make, one that could completely reshape your personal or professional journey ahead. It's that thrilling moment when life tosses many options your way.
We've all had those moments, standing at life's crossroads, wondering which path to take. It's like being lost in a forest with no compass. But what if I told you that you have an internal compass, your very own North Star, ready to guide you?
Join me on a journey to tap into your North Star and make bolder decisions.
1. Listen to Your Gut
Remember those moments when a persistent gut feeling warned you not to trust someone, and in the end, your intuition proved to be absolutely correct? That's your North Star guiding you – your innate instinct often knows what's best even before your conscious mind catches up, preventing you from a potential nightmare.
2. Embrace Stillness
Meet Charlotte, a friend who swears by her morning ritual of sipping tea on her quiet balcony, away from her bustling household. In these serene moments, she finds clarity. Discover your own oasis of calm, whether it's a leisurely walk, a prayer, a brief meditation, or simply gazing out of a window.
3. Trust Your Instincts
Remember when you chose that perfect gift for a friend despite everyone else's suggestions? It turned out to be a hit, right? Trusting yourself means believing that you inherently know what the best option is.
4. Ditch the External Noise
Have you noticed that your best ideas often arise during a shower, away from the incessant pings of your phone? Sometimes, to hear your North Star clearly, you must mute the entire world, even if only temporarily.
5. Reflect on Past Successes
Recall the decision to take up a hobby class even when you were hesitant to try something new? Now, it's your cherished weekend activity. Reflecting on past decisions, especially the successful ones, can boost your confidence in making future choices.
6. Seek Feedback, but trust Your North Star
It's beneficial to seek a second opinion… but remember: it's just that—an opinion. Always remember that your North Star should guide your final decision. Remember when you decided to take that spontaneous weekend getaway to a place you'd never been despite your friends' skepticism? It turned out to be an unforgettable adventure filled with amazing memories.
7. Celebrate Your Good Decisions
When you make a decision that turns out to be a resounding success, celebrate it! Whether it's indulging in your favorite dessert or doing a joyful little dance, acknowledging your good decisions reinforces your trust in your North Star.
Tapping into your North Star isn't about lofty ideals. It's about everyday choices, both big and small. It's about recognizing that you possess the innate ability to make decisions aligned with your true self and purpose.
So, the next time you find yourself grappling with a decision, remember these seven steps. Your North Star is right there, ready to show you the way.
What immediate applications can you find for this in your life?
Let's Get Moving!
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